Good by Forever....I Hope

I wrote a blog a while back about the ex boyfriend trying to borrow money from me after six years of not at all being connected to me in any type of fashion, not even a distant friend.

At the time of the break up he really broke my heart. I would say it took me a good four years to get over the whole thing....He caused me a lot of pain because of the wreckage he left behind when he figured he was done with me and what I could offer him, which was nothing because I was broke.

Well he was at it again last week, pretty much demanding that I "do him a favor". Just like old times....except it wasn't.....I sent him a final e-mail today, hopefully I have heard the last from him forever;

Hey Stephen,

I hoped things worked out for you.

I wanted to let you know that I did not think it quite fair what happened last week.

We have not even been friends for six years. It made me feel extremely uncomfortable that you would even ask me such a thing.

Its extraordinary that I even considered giving you a guaranteed loan, which after being in business for six years, you could not do.

So, your disappointment at me, that I would not lend you ( your not a friend or family) money based on your word is astounding.

I think I did my duty with you. You have forgotten all the money you did get from me. That was a long time ago, and I learned my lesson the hard way. So, in the future, don't ask again, because it won't happen.

Do me a favor and take me off that list of people who you think would lend you money, because I never will again.



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Holly